personality type

Jadi ecritanya, kemaren pas di kelas Training & Development kan temen aku prsentasi, dan di materi presentasinya itu dia ngasih kayak satu metode tes personality buat tau lebih mendalam gimana personality kita, trus apa aja kekuatan dan kelemahan kita. biasanya tes-tes kepribadian kayak gini emang dilakuin di perusahaan-perusahaan yang emang concern sama kepribadian karyawannya. karena dengan mengetahui bagaimana kepribadian tiap-tiap orang, perusahaan jadi tau apa minat dan bakat orang itu, so bisa menyesuaikan content training and development yang sesuai sama kepribadian, minat, dan bakat orang itu. ya kira-kira seperti itulah.

nah awalnya aku juga ga terlalu tertarik sama tes-tes kepribadian kayak ginian. karena biasanya yang namanya tes kepribadian pasti suka abal-abal, yang hasilnya entah apa, gak ada cocoknya sama sekali. ya walopun ini tes yang memberitahu gimana kepribadian kita, tapi kan kita sendiri juga sebenernya udah tau kan kita itu tipe orang yang kayak gimana. dan ketika ikut semacam tes kayak gitu trus hasilnya jauh dari perkiraan, ya gendok.

tapi setelah diliat-liat ternyata ini tes bukan sembarang tes, gak abal-abal gitu deh, udah sering dipake juga di perusahaan-perusahaan di Amrik sono, dan yang paling penting, ini merupakan hasil research seorang researcher, yang pastinya gak asal-asalan lah ya. apalagi pas ngeliat hasilnya ternyata ummm 98% bener, rasanya: PUASS :D

nah, tes ini terdiri dari sekitar 70 pertanyaan, yang bisa meng-asses gimana preferensi kita, trus juga meneliti antara sensing vs intuition; thinking vs feeling; dan judging vs perceiving. nah nanti ketahuan deh kita itu tipe personality nya kayak apa.

kalo aku, kemaren hasilnya ENFJ (extraverted, intuitive, feeling, judging). jadi aku ini orangnya Extraverted Feeling with Introverted Intuition. ciri-ciri umum dari orang dengan tipe ENFJ adalah:
charismatic, compassionate, possibilities for people, ignores the unpleasant, idealistic.
secara umum, ibaratnya seperti: Smooth Talking Persuader, atau Most Persuasive, atau The Giver.

As an ENFJ, you're primary mode of living is focused externally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your personal value system. Your secondary mode is internal, where you take things in primarily via your intuition. They understand and care about people, and have a special talent for bringing out the best in others. ENFJ's main interest in life is giving love, support, and a good time to other people. They are focused on understanding, supporting, and encouraging others. They make things happen for people, and get their best personal satisfaction from this.  see? bener banget. kadang saking perhatiannya sama orang, sampe-sampe diri sendiri gak diperhatiin. beuhh. dan dari dulu itu aku tuh tipe orang yang suka banget perhatiin orang lain, even kalo orang itu gak butuh perhatian aku atau ga suka mungkin. menyebalkan emang ya rasanya, tapi yaaa begitulah adanya. The ENFJ may feel quite lonely even when surrounded by people. This feeling of aloneness may be exacerbated by the tendency to not reveal their true selves  nah!! yang ini TRUE STORY.  ENFJs have a special gift with people, and are basically happy people when they can use that gift to helpothers. They get their best satisfaction from serving others. Their genuine interest in Humankind and theirexceptional intuitive awareness of people makes them able to draw out even the most reserved individuals.ENFJs have a strong need for close, intimate relationships, and will put forth a lot of effort in creating and maintaining these relationships. They're very loyal and trustworthy once involved in a relationship  ENFJs put a lot of effort and enthusiasm into their relationships. To some extent, the ENFJ definesthemselves by the closeness and authenticity of their personal relationships, and are therefore highlyinvested in the business of relationships. They have very good people skills, and are affectionate andconsiderate. They are warmly affirming and nurturing. They excel at bringing out the best in others, andwarmly supporting them. They want responding affirmation from their relationships, although they have aproblem asking for it. When a situation calls for it, the ENFJ will become very sharp and critical. Afterhaving made their point, they will return to their natural, warm selves. They may have a tendency to"smother" their loved ones, but are generally highly valued for their genuine warmth and caring natures. aduh udah maghrib. ya kira-kira kayak gitu lah ya, intinya. jadi intinya apa???? intinya, saya tipe orang yang senang memperhatikan, taking care, motivate, dan growing the other people. walaupun kadang suka over dan lebay, itu semata-mata adalah cara saya mengkespresikan kepedulian saya kepada orang lain, yang terkadang justru malah mengesampingkan urusan dan kepentingan diri saya sendiri. tapi, yang namanya udah sifat, udah dari sananya kayak gitu ya begitulah. kalo mau dipaksa buat cuek, itu namanya menyalahi nature. susah banget buat kayak gitu, dan mungkin emang gak bisa. so, kalo ada yang pernah ngerasa sebel karena aku terlalu lebay dalam memperhatiin atau apa, maaf.. that's my nature.